I'm in Canton, Ohio
at the home of a close friend, Shawn Frankly, I never knew how close
we were until all this happened. Shawn is a photographer and we go
back to around 1985 when he started his photography business. Now,
he's one of the main photographers in Northeast Ohio. He's shot for
all sorts of clients – ad agencies, magazines, companies, civic
entities and others. Tomorrow, he'll start shooting the Pro FootballHall of Fame event. It's a gig he's done annually for the past 25+
years.
Shawn and his wife,
Lisa, have been more than gracious. They took me in when they didn't
have a reason to do so. I'm grateful to have a roof over my head.
My homelessness has
provided me with new insights into gratitude, along with other
insights. For example, I learned I don't really have a family. Sure,
I have a biological mother, father and a sibling, but they don't want
to know me. I'm not sure what I did but, apparently, it was bad.
That's the thing. You try to do something good for folks and it
backfires in your face. Nonetheless, I'll keep trying.
I'm looking for
work. That's really a bit tougher than it seems. I'm trying to find
some writing work on the Net. I don't have a car or work-type
clothes, so focusing on working online seems like the sensible
option. I had done quite a bit of writing for various Websites back
in the day. But, they've all dried up and I'm back at the starting
gate. So, it's trolling Craigslist, Indeed and Monster. I've gotten a
couple of gigs but not enough to pay rent and such.
I am looking for an
apartment. I'm not sure how I'll pay for it yet, but looking
nonetheless. Foxhaven is a possibility. I used to live there a while
back. It's a nice place and they have studio apartments for around
$500/month. I can swing it if I can find a steady stream of writing
gigs. Back to Craigslist, Indeed and Monster.
I can't help but
think something will break … in a good way. I believe in karma and
if I keep striving to do good, it will come back. I hope it doesn't
come back and haunt me with a vengeance.
Right
now, I feel pretty worthless. My family has tossed me aside. I can't
find any work. I can do things that nobody, apparently, wants. I
write. I design. Geez, I just
re-read that and it really sounds pathetic. Speaking of karma, I must
have done something really bad in a previous life.
I
can't remember the last time I laughed or even smiled. The
only thing I can do is keep on
keeping on, try to be
positive and look for opportunities. I've
got an uphill battle to be what I once was.